Does my phone change which pair I should buy?
For earbuds, yes. AirPods give iPhone owners instant pairing, device switching and Find My, and lose nearly all of it on Android. Sony's LDAC and Samsung's codec features go the other way. For over-ears the gap is smaller: the Sony and Bose flagships behave the same on both, which is one reason they are the safe picks.
Flagship over-ears are platform-neutralMaker specs; retailer codec guidance